How not to take things personally? | Frederik Imbo | TEDxMechelen

Frederik Imbo studied theatre at the Royal Conservatory of Ghent and has acted in lots of television series. He founded Imboorling and now has over 15 years' experience in stimulating and supporting people. With the aim of improving their communication skills Frederik gives presentations, workshops, training courses and personal coaching sessions to anyone prepared to make their two ears available.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • Fr Anny
    Fr Anny14 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hey, it is not you, it is me.

  • Michelle Anya
    Michelle Anya15 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Very thought provoking and true. I found it soothing in most every aspect. Though I'll be honest...I live with debilitating anxiety, watching him put the $ in his mouth made me have an anxiety attack. The germs my good man....the GeRmS!!!!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    4 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Michelle, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. I can comfort you. the talk was launched in March of 2020, but was recorded in February of 2019. So long before corona! And the note was sanitized beforehand.

  • L Urzidil
    L Urzidil17 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    but i am a person, sorry ... if you want me to carry "your" (because not personal) aggressive unconscious non-existent lies, inflated bubbles of fear, unconsciousness, you'll have to find another silly person, who doesnt know she is a person, lies to herself (yet) ...

  • Destiny Garcia
    Destiny Garcia18 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I’m ashamed to think I haven’t been able to apply this concept to my everyday life, it’s like a bulb went on 🥺

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    4 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Destiny Garcia, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. Please don't be ashamed but happy having found a new insight. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Patrick Garcia
    Patrick Garcia18 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    The moldy brian suggestively knock because flight inexplicably smash beside a erratic art. cultured, bright asparagus

  • Fast and Furious
    Fast and Furious18 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Give urself empathy and speak up !!speaking up the way he mentioned can be solution to the all problms in humanity !!claps !!!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    4 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Fast and furious, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Silent Genius Club
    Silent Genius Club21 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    At what point will one avoid the ego(protector) so much so, that they dance on the line of becoming a doormat, and being taken advantage of ALL the time. In order to not create waves in a professional environment; one continues to bottle up and not listen to their gut(ego) only one day explode from bullies and abusers that take advantage of the hard earners and reward the lazy egomaniac complainers. Little bitches that are seen as Golden boys, continued to be protected by nice people ignoring their ego. At what point is someone going to teach people how to stand up against this toxic “professional” office work environment?

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    4 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Silent Genius club, It's indeed a thin line; how do I avoid taking things personally but not getting used by other people? Thank you for your reaction and asking me this interesting question. There are two things. First of all, how you feel yourself by the behavior of other people. By not taking it personally, I hope to increase the inner peace. The second part is how you react to people. If you want a connection with the other one, you can empathize with the other one OR tell them what you're feeling. If you don't want a connection, because you're to hurted, I would take distance and protect yourself for that person to avoid that he's hurting you even more. You should love yourself in the first place and certainly speak up, but not because you take things personally, but because you respect and love yourself and you want to fulfill your needs.

  • CG Potato
    CG Potato21 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    from the thumbnails, thought this was prince Harry

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    4 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    haha! You're not the first one who thought this.

  • Flamur Kastrati
    Flamur Kastrati21 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    He keeps talking and talking... and then he says I became a referee. 🤐

  • Vladyslav Kurbatskyy
    Vladyslav Kurbatskyy22 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    🐋

  • Leyi Wang
    Leyi Wangਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    0:43 kevin de bruyne in 15 years time

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    haha! And we're from the same country!

  • Damon
    Damonਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    “Ok?” Crowd….”…..”. Anyone in the room?

  • Damon

    Damon

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo well as long as that’s true good. Was wondering if you’d respond. 🍻🍻. Thanks for the good talk. This is one very important thing I’ve come to realize. And even if it’s intended to be personal it’s on us to take it that way. I have issues with my mom and dad. We don’t choose our parents. It would be nice to have people in my life that I feel care about me in my way. Life goals🍻. Take care and remember free will is a fiction

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

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    Hi Damon. The audience was rather quiet indeed. That is because hardly any sound was recorded from the reactions in the room. As a result, some reactions were added afterwards in the editing. The silent audience makes many suspect that they didn't find it interesting ... And you know, that's possible. Or they didn't like my style, or they were tired, or... or... Anyway; whatever the reason was, luckily I didn't take that personally :-)

  • Divinity Litty
    Divinity Littyਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    God bless this man for real (on a buck on a stack for real for real lol😂) the money analogy was amazing, significant and powerful. I'm going to watch this anytime someone severely pisses me off

  • Divinity Litty

    Divinity Litty

    12 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo Thank you for replying!!!!! This video has been very helpful! I wish you the best!❤🙏🏾

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Divinity Litty! Thank you for your kind note and putting me on top of a buck lol! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Victor Rey
    Victor Reyਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I Drive Right, You Drive Right, We Drive Right. My message to drivers who learned to move right or drive in the right lane while letting everyone else go by. This act will help develop better habits in everything. Thanks for Confirming "We" for us.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Victor Rey, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Eunjoo Touma
    Eunjoo Toumaਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    This is exactly what I wanted to learn. Thank you.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Eunjoo Touma, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Sanjana Singh
    Sanjana Singhਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    When he said O negative thoughts O man please even my blood group is O negative

  • Infamousnicone
    Infamousniconeਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    WOW VERY NICE THX

  • Infamousnicone

    Infamousnicone

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo thanks for the reply. this really hit the spot appreciate it 👍

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Infamousnicone, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Abhishek Velayudh
    Abhishek Velayudh2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    That's really inspiration, I never imagine those kind of perspective.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Abhishek Velayudh, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Ankit Gautam
    Ankit Gautam2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    COCKTAIL IS THE VERY FIRST REWARD MULTIPLIER TOKEN ON ANY BLOCKCHAIN!

  • Alma Alma
    Alma Alma2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Waaaaaàaaaàaaaaaaw

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Alma Alma, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • SaMi
    SaMi2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Big like...

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello SaMi, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Anupama Ghimire
    Anupama Ghimire2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Waow 👏

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Anupama, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Mike B
    Mike B2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    He put money in his mouth during the Coronavirus !!!!

  • Mike B

    Mike B

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo I was only joking :D

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I can comfort you Mike. the talk was launched in March of 2020, but was recorded in February of 2019. So long before corona! And the note was sanitized beforehand.

  • Sa. L
    Sa. L2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I like that orange part and i took it personally :))

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    haha!

  • Antarikha Hazarika
    Antarikha Hazarika2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    😇😇😇😇

  • Homealldaybored
    Homealldaybored3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    The scandalous atom angiographically smell because cast internally decay anenst a willing drug. married, brown humor

  • Nurul BOSSmy
    Nurul BOSSmy3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    oh my god, its make my cry

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Nurul, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. Sorry that it made you cry. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Jace Angel
    Jace Angel3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places. All these are the beginning of birth pains. Matthew NKJV 24:6-8

  • violinhunter2
    violinhunter23 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I had to turn this off halfway through - but I know that's okay. I'll be back.

  • qatrelnada jubran
    qatrelnada jubran3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    👏🏼👏🏼.👏🏼

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Qatrelnada jubran, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Soumya Pattanaik
    Soumya Pattanaik3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Thanks !!! i so much needed this today. great talk

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Soumya, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • ANIL KAPUR
    ANIL KAPUR3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    This is one of the challenges we all encounter in life; Fredrik's methodology to deal with it is a simple yet effective tool to deploy.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Anil, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Marta Ibáñez Gutiérrez
    Marta Ibáñez Gutiérrez4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Simple and powerful. [[It's all about me when I do not speak up]] CHEERS! You were JUST in time.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Marta, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Masamba Evelyn Nyakaisiki
    Masamba Evelyn Nyakaisiki4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I have learnt a lot thank you 😊

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello massamba, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • 富勒烯
    富勒烯4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Mr.Imbo: Were there still have people want this moist euros? Nobody: someone: it's still money Mr.Imbo: Thanks for god, I almost scare you to take it personally.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    hi! No! I did not take that personally. Luckily! Thanks for watching 富勒烯!

  • JZRX SOLE
    JZRX SOLE4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I hate horoscope mfs, but I’m a Libra and I feel this man articulated exactly how I go about my issues by putting myself in the other peoples shoes. The only thing I’d like to add is there is a healthy balance between letting things go and allowing people to take advantage of you’re niceness. By the way that ending line made me get out of my seat and clap, I’m not even in the audience😂

  • Duy Nhật
    Duy Nhật4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    that 20euro ending touch my heart

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Duy, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Ghayle Colinares
    Ghayle Colinares4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    How a personal attack can't be taken personally Ted?

  • Ghayle Colinares

    Ghayle Colinares

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo I appreciate your reply.But what if the attack is more of the threat of losing your job?

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Ghayle, a very interesting question. Even when what the other person says is very personal, you don't have to take it necessarily personally. You can still focus on the unfulfilled needs of the other person that they try to fulfill by hurting you. It has nothing to do with you but everything with the struggle or the pain of the other person. Let me give you two quotes that might help you as well. Hateful behaviour is rarely only what is seems. Those who hurt us are themselves in pain. 
The appropriate response is hence never cynicism nor aggression but, at the rare moments one can manage it, always love. Alain De Botton All the seawater in the world can't sink a ship, unless the ship takes on water. All the negativity in the world can't touch you, unless you let it.

  • DonDaniel
    DonDaniel4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    MJ watching this be like : This is all I needed...

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Haha, indeed DonDaniel. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan was just trying to do his best. He was trying to deal with his unmet need for recognition. He just wanted to be appreciated.

  • jy jt
    jy jt4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Thank you for being in my life.

  • jy jt

    jy jt

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo Sir I already shared and explained to my wife and sister. The way you delivered , it's difficult to forget that,I am using , getting benefit of it. Thank you. God bless you.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Jy Jt, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Akhilesh Sharma
    Akhilesh Sharma4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    This is the best video ever..the most basic concept to learn

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    3 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Akhilesh, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you; event the best video ever! Wow! I feel honored. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Sounds of Relaxation | Modern relaxation music
    Sounds of Relaxation | Modern relaxation music4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Great video!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Razan Nasser
    Razan Nasser4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    best man out there

  • Razan Nasser

    Razan Nasser

    17 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo thank you so much sure will do !!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Razan, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Maria Eugênia Rêgo
    Maria Eugênia Rêgo5 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Thank you so much for this inspiring talk, Frederik! Especially the message in the very end, about our own value, is really something we all should keep in mind and in our hearts 👏

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Maria, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Anwaar ALRIGHEEWHUY
    Anwaar ALRIGHEEWHUY5 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    It is that greatest video i have been watched,He was so authentic sense . It is helped me really thank you sir .

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Anwaar, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Monique Naidoo
    Monique Naidoo5 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Jesus loves you all ♥️

  • bandana panwar
    bandana panwar6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    amazing!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Bandana Panwar (nice nickname!), Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • your name
    your name6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    China is developing new viruses while democrats focus on Trump and Jan 6th. Joe Biden and china are laughing at America.Defunding police is a way to fund a Gestapo. Democrats have destroyed their own cities. WAKE UP TRUMP2024

  • Mhara Clara Lds
    Mhara Clara Lds6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    The last part touched me and I almost wanted to cry.. i will always keep my value! Thank so much for this message sir!❤️ God bless you more!

  • HilliBilli

    HilliBilli

    2 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo Hi, it sounds like a bit of „A course in miracles“ . 💖

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Mhara Clara Lds, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Nicolas Williams
    Nicolas Williams6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Not about me.thrown off balance

  • Nicolas Williams
    Nicolas Williams6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Me to we.intention .

  • Gabriel Bruzzi
    Gabriel Bruzzi6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    This lesson is great for all couples...especially husbands and wives!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Gabriel, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • jane andrade
    jane andrade6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    PROVÉRBIOS BÍBLICOS 25-17 SEJA RARO OS TEUS PÉS NA CASA DO TEU PÓXIMO, PARA QUE NÃO SE ENFADE DE TI E PASSE A TI ODIAR.

  • thanos
    thanos6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    the opposite of mj

  • Gift Effiong
    Gift Effiong6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I can’t forget this in a hurry Fredrick, it impacted my heart. I will rewatch and post to many. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • Gift Effiong

    Gift Effiong

    5 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo Thank you Fredrick.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Gift Effiong, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Vampierre Bytes
    Vampierre Bytes6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    The mammoth tiger thankfully guard because taxicab timely drum amidst a better example. frantic, evasive lunge

  • chinmay chandraunshuh
    chinmay chandraunshuh6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    wonderful ted talk, beautifully articulated.

  • chinmay chandraunshuh

    chinmay chandraunshuh

    5 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo surely Frederick! as a matter of fact, it was my dad who shared your video with me and my mom. we both found it incredible! I shall share it with as many friends as I can! now I can think much more selflessly after listening to your ideas about anger management and self-control. Thanks for your message, and thanks once again for this beautiful ted talk of yours!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Chinmay, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Rose Link
    Rose Link6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Great info! Am I the only one that heard a high pitch sound on this recording?

  • Rose Link

    Rose Link

    5 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi thanks for your response. I heard it on my cellphone , my headphones and a portable Bluetooth speaker. I was able to get through it though. Thank you.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Rose Link. Sorry to read that there was a high pitched, annoying beep that disturbed you so much. I actually have no idea where it came from. Perhaps you could try listening to my presentation from a different device and tell me if you still have the same thing? It's strange. Only a minority of people apparently hear that irritating sound. Hopefully you can listen to my story properly on another device.

  • Beksultan Sadirov
    Beksultan Sadirov6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    You should understand that “it’s just a business”

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Beksultan. Yes, and just because it's just a business, we shouldn't take things personally.

  • Deucez
    Deucez6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Am I the only one that thinks he sounds like the moon from the Mighty Boosh? 👀

  • Nicky Empress
    Nicky Empress7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Interesting motivational speech but I didn't like the fact that you put the money in your mouth.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Nicky, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I can comfort you. the talk was launched in March of 2020, but was recorded in February of 2019. So long before corona! And the note was sanitized beforehand. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • stillettastill
    stillettastill7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Oh this trick with money was really good in the end of his speech. Nice presentation and important subject to speak about it👍

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    6 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello stillettastill! Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Liam Tarbet
    Liam Tarbet7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Laddd

  • Jacob perezy
    Jacob perezy7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    This dude sounds like shrek and donkeys baby

  • anthonysilard
    anthonysilard7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Such a great video, so important to address this issue.

  • Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz
    Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    04:15 Anh là…. 🐋

  • Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz
    Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    05:25 Em là cô gái mặc áo xám. 🕦

  • Doctor Strong
    Doctor Strong8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    James Faulkner.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    haha! I'll add that name to the list of celebrities I seem to resemble. According to some people I look like Kevin Debruyne (soccer player) Boris Becker (tennis player) Peter schmeichel (soccer goalkeeper) TinTin (cartoon character) Prince Harry Arthur Weasley (a character in Harry Potter) Mitchell Pritchett (Modern Family) Sebastian vettel (Formule 1 pilot) Kevin McKidd (actor in Grey's anatomy) Jonny Bairstow (cricket player)

  • Yuvaveer Anudeep
    Yuvaveer Anudeep8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Oops everywhere the talk is referring to he/him, feminists will screw him

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    haha! If they do, now they know how not to take it personally!

  • Obert Nyambe
    Obert Nyambe8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    my first ted talk that i listened to. thanks Mr Frederik.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Obert! What an honour! Thank you. I hope you liked it.

  • Thuỷ Nguyễn
    Thuỷ Nguyễn8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    21/7/2021 bắt đầu luyện nghe t.anh từ video này💪💪

  • pacer21
    pacer218 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    His last point was the most powerful one that I hope to remember going forward.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Pacer21, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Nivedita Ghosh
    Nivedita Ghosh8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Amazing loved it

  • Nivedita Ghosh

    Nivedita Ghosh

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo it was very inspiring n yess when life gives u reality check you r tested every time in this way really how to not take all things personally no matter it's personal or professional one should follow encourage inspire oneself to try new things learn but not to get disappointed 😊

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Niveditha, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Onore!
    Onore!8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    What a load of bull A referree to learn to not taking stuff personally? Just go work at Macdonalds

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    7 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Maybe that's even a faster and more difficult way to learn it. I agree.

  • Denisha Jodie
    Denisha Jodie9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    The sulky aquarius naturally hover because stepmother reversely kneel out a cute invention. miscreant, obscene relative

  • Peter Meyer
    Peter Meyer9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    - Someone, who doesnt take things personally: Someone, who doesnt care at all, maybe a psychopath. - Someone, who takes all things personally: An egocentric believer in social rights and social/emotional intelligence. - Healthy/firm person (or generally born before 2000): Probably doesnt need to be told, what to take personally and what not. Frederik Imbo gets other words and things wrong also: - Taking things personally is not the same as considering things important! The guy 2:10 in the car behind yours is addressing specifically you, so its correct to take his angry message personally. But that doesnt mean one should consider this message or him to be of importance. Same goes for most of the other examples he tells. Most of them are examples of things, which ought to be taken personally simply because they are and wouldnt make any sense otherwise. - Beeing right is not the same as insisting on beeing right! "Do you want to be right?" Well, dont you? And dont you want others to strive for that, too? Really? Isnt beeing right important and good? What about that referee-example and why should there be a referee, if he didnt care about the game to be played correctly? What if a pilot or a chirurg doesnt care about beeing right anymore? Who wants to be in that plane or under that scalpel? Does anyone really want to live in a society with a large proportion of people not acknowledging what is right? Also, he gives no explanation for his strange conclusion, that one can experience more harmony in the presence of people who dont give a f*ck about anything. Insisting on beeing right or in other words avoiding to even think of beeing wrong is a matter of the ego as is going on stage and acting or giving a presentation like this. Its totally ok to feed the ego for beeing right as long as one cares to be right in the first place.

  • Flemming Lund
    Flemming Lund9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I earn huge profit on my investments since i started trading with mrs kate williams,her trading strategies are top notch coupled with the little commission she charges when trading with her.

  • James Ray

    James Ray

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I'm proud to hear people talk about good jobs done by mrs kate, this has been my seven successive cycle of trade with kate and i must say i don't want to stop anytime soon. Trading has been very good

  • Peaceful Phrases
    Peaceful Phrases9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Such an amazing msg. Eye opener.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Peaceful Phrases, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Ian Napier
    Ian Napier9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Thank you

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    With pleasure Ian.

  • tobbe0zero
    tobbe0zero9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Man, that first example was a horrible one considering the points he's trying to make. If you are inviting someone to go to the movies and they decline, claiming they have to work and then go to dinner with other friends, that is something you should definitely take personally. There's no "oh maybe it's because of this thing or that". They have lied to you instead of just telling the truth and saying they had other plans. If you don't take that personally something is very wrong with you because that is pretty much the definition of someone doing something against you personally. The same goes for the "looking at you and then laughing" example.

  • tobbe0zero

    tobbe0zero

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo I mean, I can understand what you're saying and the point you are trying to make, and for most of your talk I agree with you and think it is good advice. It's just that I don't think the specific examples I mentioned help proove your point. I understand wanting to see things from the positive side but I believe there is a limit to that, when someone lies to you like that it I believe it should make you angry. If they had a good reason and a positive intention to do something else they would've explained it to you and probably apologized. In which case, great! it was probably not something against you personally. But if they then instead went behind your back and tried to hide it from you that is a breach of trust and I really don't see how there's any positive intention in that nor how that is something you shouldn't take personally, seeing as it is very much directed at you, personally

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Tobbe0zero. I'am sad reading your message. Even when someone lies to you, you shouldn't take it personally. Why not? First of all, because it does not make you happy. It makes you angry. Secondly because the other one who lies, has a positive intention. They just don't dare to be honest. Not taking something personally does however not mean that I agree with them and still want to be friends. My talk only explains how you not take something personally. Nothing more. Nothing less.

  • Nightshade
    Nightshade9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I’m currently editing a novel that I’ve been working on since 2018. I finally got an editor, and she was super nice-her comments and critiques were, too. But as soon as I got the manuscript back with the critique, I lost all motivation to get it published. This video really helped me realize that I wasn’t showing myself empathy for the smallest mistakes. Thank you ☺️

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Nightshade. Good luck with the publication of your book.

  • Proby Rhymes
    Proby Rhymes9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Turns out the whole Dilemma is just all about our Ego Tripping, this was enlightening

  • Proby Rhymes

    Proby Rhymes

    4 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo much appreciated sir.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Proby Rhymes! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • hope Line

    hope Line

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Herbal medication is the best ,am so happy to meet DR Ropopor herbal on you-tube who cured my herpes totally you are the best .........

  • Jennifer Gallegos
    Jennifer Gallegos9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    That was excellent..especially the ending

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Jennifer. Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Eloisa Añasco Villavicencio
    Eloisa Añasco Villavicencio9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Wooowww!!! This guy is awesome!! the very best! Loved him!

  • Eloisa Añasco Villavicencio

    Eloisa Añasco Villavicencio

    13 ਘੰਟੇ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo Hey Frederik! I would have never imagined there was a city in Belgium with a name that kinda sounds like mine. 🤩😍 Thanks for your lovely message. I really need to work on this, as well as other related matters. I will do my best. Take care. Kisses and hugs from Ecuador. 🇪🇨

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Eloisa, (funny fact: I grew up in Sint-Eloois-Vijve ... It makes me think of your name) Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • MotoScientist
    MotoScientist10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Another aspect of this (particularly with the football referee'ing) is imposter syndrome. As a new referee, having never played football previously, feeling like you don't belong or don't know enough/aren't experienced enough, its very easy to then take things personally. I'm the same. I'm an academic researcher and imposter syndrome is awful (and very real!). Also as a rugby coach, I never played rugby..who am I to teach others how to play!? I have been on many courses, and know I can coach..but still, I take comments personally when i'm on the side of the pitch with the kids playing, and I'm directing them.. the parent's say things they think I don't hear

  • MotoScientist

    MotoScientist

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo thanks Frederik. I would also like to thank you for a fantastic talk. It was very close to my heart too, I get these feelings often. Its very comforting when others also experience it, to know I'm not alone or being oversensitive. But you also gave some really excellent tips to overcome it, which I am grateful for.. and intend to put into practice! Take care ☺

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi MotoScientist. Thank you so much for your message!!! I get so many messages here, mostly because people want to thank me for my talk. But you... really gave me something very valuable. You taught me the Imposter syndrome. Thank you for sharing your small story so openly with me! Good luck with coaching the kids on the pitch!

  • amine salim
    amine salim10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Nice messages

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Amine, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Muzeem khan
    Muzeem khan10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    The comment section is taking the crowd's lack of reaction personally - on behalf of the speaker.. There should be a Ted talk to deal with that..

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    hahaha Muzeem! Good point!

  • レイ
    レイ10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    how to not

  • レイ

    レイ

    10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    how to***

  • JHON ALEXANDER Rincon
    JHON ALEXANDER Rincon10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Al final si le dio los veinte euros??

  • Jill Allerton
    Jill Allerton10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Wow this hits the proverbial nail on the head. Thank you so much.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Jill! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Divyanshi Agrawal
    Divyanshi Agrawal10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Thank you so much for this talk , it was awesome. It came to me at the very right time. Mainly the last few minutes.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Divyanshi! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • shazadster
    shazadster10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Michael Jordan takes this personally.

  • shazadster

    shazadster

    8 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Frederik Imbo I feel so good that you replied :)))))))))

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Haha, indeed. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan was just trying to do his best. He was trying to deal with his unmet need for recognition. He just wanted to be appreciated.

  • Monman Thecom
    Monman Thecom10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    In this world, emotional intelligence is very much needed. Hope people actually give some thought about it.

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hi Monman. Very much needed indeed; both emotional intelligence and empathy.

  • Monman Thecom

    Monman Thecom

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    @Peter Meyer I agree with the Intelligence + caring, driven by empathy. Good point

  • Peter Meyer

    Peter Meyer

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    You probably mean, this world needs people, who are both intelligent and carring driven by empathy. Or do you mean, that one needs to be both intelligent and aware of other peoples emotions to get along in this world? Anyways, emotional intelligence doesnt exist. Its a false categorization. Its just as nonsensical as speaking of monday intelligence. And btw. abstraction and categorization form a category of intelligence, which is worth to remember everytime one hears someone talk about social/emotional intelligence.

  • Sabina wtf
    Sabina wtf10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    muy buena la ted talk pero el final está copiado de Merlí, una serie catalana

  • Robert Sinnerman
    Robert Sinnerman10 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Screaming pirch at 2kHz. What clown is responsible for completely ruining the audio on this otherwise wonderful video?

  • you and i are like my buttcheeks after all the shit that goes between us we always get back together
    you and i are like my buttcheeks after all the shit that goes between us we always get back together11 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    bro is this TED talk implying i take things personally? excuse me?!!

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    haha!

  • Shahadah Bobby
    Shahadah Bobby11 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    I love this and understand and agree with everything but what if you’re right what if all the things that you’re thinking is true what do you do then? Just let it go?

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    When you're 100% right and the other one has another opinion or tells you that you're lying, even then you don't have to take it personally. Just speak up and let it go for the rest. you KNOW that you're right. No need to prove it. Live in harmony with yourself.

  • Dita Wahyu
    Dita Wahyu11 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Thanks Mechelen, you did point out the questions that has bothered me so much when I feel bad while being criticized: because it touches the nerve from the past. Thanks

  • Frederik Imbo

    Frederik Imbo

    9 ਦਿਨ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ

    Hello Dita, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

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